I’m sorry to hear that you feel like your trans surgery ruined your life. I can’t imagine how difficult that must be for you.

It’s important to remember that you’re not alone. There are many other people who have had negative experiences with trans surgery. Some people have experienced complications from the surgery, while others have found that the surgery did not meet their expectations.

If you’re feeling like your trans surgery ruined your life, it’s important to reach out for help. There are many resources available to you, such as support groups, therapists, and online forums. You can also talk to your doctor about your concerns.

It’s important to remember that you’re still the same person, regardless of what happened with your surgery. You deserve to be happy and to live a fulfilling life. There are many things you can do to improve your life, even if you’re not happy with your surgery.

Here are some resources that may be helpful:

  • The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
  • Trans Lifeline: https://www.translifeline.org/
  • Gender Spectrum: https://www.genderspectrum.org/
  • GLAAD: https://www.glaad.org/

I hope you find the support you need to heal and move forward.