There is no one definitive way to determine if someone is transgender. Transgender people may express their gender identity in a variety of ways, and there is no single set of criteria that can be used to identify them.

Some common signs that someone may be transgender include:

  • They may express a strong desire to live as the gender they identify with.This may include expressing a preference for different pronouns, clothing, or hairstyles.
  • They may experience gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is a condition in which a person experiences distress because their gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth.
  • They may have a history of gender-atypical childhood behavior. This may include playing with toys that are typically associated with the opposite gender, or preferring to play with children of the opposite gender.
  • They may have a history of cross-dressing or gender-nonconforming behavior. This may include wearing clothing that is typically associated with the opposite gender, or using makeup or other gender-affirming products.

It is important to remember that not all transgender people will experience all of these signs. Some transgender people may not experience gender dysphoria at all. Additionally, some people who experience gender dysphoria may not identify as transgender.

Ultimately, the only way to know for sure if someone is transgender is to ask them. If you are concerned that someone you know may be transgender, the best thing to do is to talk to them about it in a safe and respectful way.

Here are some resources that you may find helpful:

  • World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) Standards of Care:
  • The Trevor Project:
  • Trans Lifeline:

Determining one’s transgender identity is a deeply personal and individual journey. It is not something that can be determined by others but is ultimately self-identified by the individual experiencing gender dysphoria or a strong sense of incongruence between their gender identity and the sex assigned to them at birth. Here are a few considerations that may help in understanding one’s transgender identity:

  1. Self-Reflection: Take the time to reflect on your own feelings, thoughts, and experiences related to gender. Consider how you feel about your assigned gender at birth and if it aligns with your internal sense of self. Examine if you experience discomfort, distress, or dissatisfaction with your assigned gender or if you identify more strongly with a different gender identity.
  2. Gender Identity Exploration: Explore different gender identities and expressions. Educate yourself about the experiences of transgender individuals, their stories, and the diverse ways people express their gender. Pay attention to your own feelings and reactions to different gender identities and expressions and how they resonate with you.
  3. Seek Support and Professional Guidance: Connect with supportive communities, LGBTQ+ organizations, or transgender support groups where you can engage in discussions, share experiences, and seek guidance from individuals who have gone through similar journeys. Consider seeking counseling or therapy from professionals who specialize in gender identity to help navigate your feelings and understand your identity better.
  4. Gender Dysphoria Assessment: Gender dysphoria refers to the distress or discomfort individuals may experience due to the incongruence between their gender identity and their assigned sex at birth. If you consistently experience gender dysphoria, it may be an indicator of being transgender. Consulting with a qualified healthcare professional, such as a gender therapist or psychologist, can help you explore and evaluate your feelings of gender dysphoria.